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Could You Forgive?

The recent tragedy in Connecticut reminded me of a situation a few years ago. It hit me so hard that it caused me to write the song called, "Could You Forgive?" While I believe it may be fitting for the current massacre, let me go back to that time in the little Amish village....

It was October, 2006. A little, one-room school house in Paradise, PA. A lone gunman walked in and proceeded to shoot ten, defenseless Amish girls. Five of them were killed. Even though we live in a very violent nation, and maybe getting somewhat used to the murder and mayhem, we were all still blown away by that cowardly act.

Perhaps what struck me even more was the immediate, and total forgiveness of the Amish community towards the shooter. This was a completely new concept to me. How is it even possible to forgive a person who just murdered your child? Murder is forever! The children are gone forever! Yet the murderer was forgiven. This was, and continues to be unthinkable to me.

Hence, the song, "Could You Forgive?" along with the resulting question. If this happened to you, and you child was taken from you, forever, by the same form of  brutality, could you forgive the murderer?

Please, give us your thoughts on this difficult question.

Josh Hoover

2:10 pm on Monday, December 17, 2012

Robert - thank you for some important food for thought. I'm afraid my answer is that being completely unable to fathom what it would be like to live these circumstances I simply don't know. And it would probably cheapen to some extent what families who are going through loss are feeling to pretend that I do know.
Having said that, my church is currently observing Advent - the season of hope and expectation, a season of knowing God is here, but also that God's kingdom is still coming into the world. And so I deeply hope that I could live the words we pray in every service of our church, "forgive us as we forgive."
There is another great song born of the tragedy in Lancaster, PA that touches on this idea, and I have linked it below. Thank you for sharing.
http://www.xlyrics.net/john-mccutcheon-lyrics/forgive-us-lyrics.html

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Robert Marr

2:30 pm on Monday, December 17, 2012

Thanks for the reply, Josh. I know John's song very well. He and I discussed our songs at the 2007 Flint Folk Festival where he was performing and I was helping with the sound system. Your post reminded me that I forgot to put out a link to my song: "Could You Forgive?" http://www.reverbnation.com/open_graph/song/4055169

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